Thursday, May 28, 2009

A snapshot of the Book "Chaos of the Senses" by Ahlam Mostaganmi...

My readers... While reading the book "Fawda Al 7awas"... a paragraph stopped me, which I would like to share with you... Please find It below:


"الناس؟ إنهم لا يطرحون عليك عادة، إلا أسئلة غبية، يجبرونك على الرد عليها بأجوبة غبية مثلها"
يسألونك مثلاً ماذا تعمل ... لا ماذا كنت تريد أن تكون. يسألونك ماذا تملك.. لا ماذا فقدت. يسألونك عن أخبار المرأة التي تزوجتها... لا عن أخبار تلك التي تحبها. يسألونك ما اسمك.. لا ما إذا كان هذا الاسم يناسبك. يسألونك ما عمرك.. لا كم عشت من هذا العمر. يسألونك أي مدينة تسكن.. لا أية مدينة تسكنك. يسألونكهل تصلي... لا يسألونك هل تخاف الله. ولذا تعودت أن أجيب عن هذه الأسئلة بالصمت. فنحن عندما نصمت نجبر الآخرين على تدارك خطأهم.
IT definitely triggers your thinking... what did you think of once you read it? Please share your thoughts if any...

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Mr. Psychiatrist – A friend or an Enemy?

Year 2005...

The word "psychology" is the combination of two terms - study (ology) and soul (psyche), or mind. Humanistic Psychology is a current manifestation of that ongoing commitment. Its message is a response to the aggression of the human spirit that has so often been implied in the image of the person drawn by behavioral and social sciences.

Every once in a while each one of us passes through different depression phases, however, depression is relative. For some, it might reach its extreme levels, where the advice of a mother, a brother or even a close friend will not help! While for some, depression lasts for a short while and they get over it easily without consulting anyone around. Thus, depression varies among different people with different backgrounds.

Youth, especially in their maturity stage, needs counsel from experienced people, as they get through different complex phases; mentally, physically, as well as emotionally. All of these changes have an indirect impact on the youth’s personality formation, development of their communication skills, way of thinking and analyzing life aspects. However, some youth grow up and still lack such qualities, which will make it harder for them to cope with frustration and depression. At some cases, youth tend to seek the help of a psychiatrist, which is healthy to overcome one’s problem; however, some might isolate themselves and stay struggling. The result of depression faced by youth, especially during their teenage phase, might make a definite impact on their psychological status ever after.

Concerning this issue, Dr. Mohammed Habashaneh- a professional Jordanian Psychiatrist- gave us his justification “The initial practical step is to find out the reasons behind the general avoidance behavior towards the idea of consulting psychiatrists. And it would be more helpful to correct the misconceptions around this issue in ‘parent’s mind’ more than directing our efforts sololely to young age group. Simply because how come the youngsters can refer themselves to psychiatrists while their models -their parents- are in refusal and denial of the whole idea. The classical misunderstanding of linking the psychiatry and psychiatric illnesses with “Madness” or “insanity” is very prominent in collective conscious of the Arab mind. The common behavioral and rotational manifestations of psychiatric disorder were interpreted by many of us wrongly by referring them to metaphysical phenomena such as magic, evil eye, gin and many others. In turn people seek religious healers (most of them are Jerks and professional manipulators) to solve their problems rather than consulting a true professional help.”

Mostly, people in our eastern culture, prefer not to consult a psychiatrist for different “convincing” reasons-as they pointed out. M.S-21 years old emphasized “I would definitely refer to a psychiatrist, but the thing that’s stopping me is what would people say behind my back! ‘Is he Crazy!?!’”. A 21 years old girl, R.S- stressed the point of not referring to a psychiatrist due to the fact of our culture perceptions; “Not in this culture. People will think that I’m insane. This is how it’s perceived! It’s a fact.” Unfortunately, people will go on and adapt the rules our culture sets concerning this issue, as there is no other way out of this reality! Consequently, this matter will never be resolved as people are not trying to fix it, but rather, they are encouraging it indirectly and spontaneously.

Taking the two different extremes of this case we’ll see that most people prefer not consulting a psychiatrist due to the misconceptions our culture has. An 18 years old girl pointed out- O.D “For sure I would consult a trusted psychiatrist, but I would rather keep it confidential. Not because am ashamed of what am doing, but because most of the people here have some mistaken believes about it!” On the other hand, some people would adopt a different mechanism in resolving their depression and problems. B.Z- 20 years old “I am conservative when it comes to my thoughts and feelings. I manage my depression by myself.” Some people, and specially youth, tend to take counsel from their best friends rather than their parents. A 22 years old guy – R.J highlighted a critical point “I don’t need the advice of a professional psychiatrist, however, I would talk my problem over with my closest friend; who happen to be a girl, as I feel more comfortable when I speak out my thoughts to her instead of my guy friends.”

Some people go with the flow of the cultural stream, regardless of what are that culture’s restrictions. They apply it automatically; to be accepted in that culture and a way of adaptation. For instance, if they were living in a western culture for half of the year, they would go on with the traditions of that culture, however, as soon as they get surrounded with an eastern culture during the other half of the same year, they will flip to the other face of the coin and act differently. A girl who conducts her studies abroad stated “I’ve sought the assistance of a psychiatrist once back where I study in England, but I would never do it here in our country, as the stereotyping of such an issue is a killer by itself!!!” This is an issue to be seriously considered-the double standards of people’s actions.

Dr. Habashaneh stated that “The major thing we have to work on is to provide our people with intensive scientific information and to educate them about the wide spectrum of mental health and psychiatric disorders. Still I’m not too optimistic of achieving a fast progress in this regard. It needs a lot of efforts and time to reach our goals. Furthermore, it should be a comprehensive and long term educational process. The teachers with directed teaching curriculums, the family, the media and the religious persons have to participate seriously and to take their responsibilities in stressing the importance of mental health and the great consequences and benefits that we can get by reaching there.”

In conclusion, people have different perspectives when it comes to the consultancy of a psychiatrist. They tend to be more conservative and protective. Moreover, the major concern is how the people around you would perceive such a thing, and the limit of tolerance our culture has. Accordingly, most people prefer to choose the smoothest path; which is to stay on what they are struggling with, hiding the bitter reality and not having the courage to face their problems. God Gifted different people with different talents, among these are the gift of comforting stressed and depressed people, and this is why professional psychiatrists are found.

The Virtual Circle; In or Out?

Written in 2006... :)

In this complex world, with a population of nearly seven billions, you will surely meet people with different qualities, mentalities, values and cultures. However, at any road there is always an intersection point where common things meet. For some, this point is viewed as their home and where they find comfort, while others perceive it as a temporary bond with other people.

Differences among people create different Virtual Circles!

Diversity is a wide, yet, a deep concept which is encountered in our daily lives. Naturally, you will find people not like you who are with different backgrounds, religions, ethnicities, histories, skills, and perspectives. Although people are different, usually what brings people together is the shared concern about a specific case, a special interest in a field, or a belief. This is where virtual circles are formed in societies; some might be repelled while others are welcomed on a red carpet. This goes back to one’s personality, capacity of adaptation and sense of belonging. For instance, a community of anti-racism will repel a member who doesn’t believe that black and white people should be given equal opportunities. Such a person will not belong there, or excel and be useful to this community. Thus, he is OUT OF THE CIRCLE!

The need to belong somewhere!

By human instinct, a person always has the urge to be part of a circle, where one’s sense of belonging is well established and defined; a crucial aspect in one’s stability and sense of security. Some people reach this feeling through comprising; on the other hand, some people are smart enough to manage through using effective communication skills and social intelligence with the opposite parties. This is where tolerance takes place. At times we need to be tactful and open to maintain our relationships and get to common grounds. It is no doubt how people can survive in life’s jungles if such a quality was not realised. People need to give and take to reach an agreed spot.

Out of your comfort zone

“Everything you want is just out of your comfort zone” – Robert Allen
At times in order to be accepted in different circles, a person needs to get out of his comfort zone. Hence, a student who is conducting his studies abroad will come across other students with different cultures and values than his. Thus, for him, in order to outlast, he will tend to get out of his comfort zone and socialize with the different people to be recognized. In this case, getting out of your zone will make you uncomfortable and less secure, however, a person cannot live solely; people need to interact and get involved with each other even though they have different values. The issue here is not giving up your principles in order to be accepted by other parties, but it is the fact of manipulating your skills to serve the goal you are trying to reach, which is indulging in new circles.

One’s identity

Unfortunately, when some people don’t belong to any party or community, they lose part of their confidence. They are most likely to think of themselves as perceiving things wrongly or as weirdoes. For example, certain religious groups are not being represented in some European parliaments. Thus, this builds a sense of underestimation and low perception of one’s stability in the society they are living in. However, this doesn’t wipe their identity, as one purpose of belonging to a specific society is maintaining a coherent identity of the group.

Productivity and Usefulness

In each country there are different types of societies, for instance, societies are found for the less fortunate parties supporting and funding them, anti smoking campaigns educating people about smoking dangers and offering ways to quitting, rehabilitation centers for drug addicts, alcoholics and family violence and still more to be considered. All these are established to serve the goals which are settled for, however, the initiators and the members who are responsible for such campaigns and centers are being productive and useful, which in turn will give them a sense of satisfaction. Thus, when a person fit in a specific circle of his interest, it will aid in increasing one’s contentment, consequently will motivate him to excel more and increase his productivity.

Intuitively, a human being always seeks ways to prove oneself and be of value. We are not found in this universe for no reason. Everyone is born to be useful in a way. It is not necessarily to be productive in your society the same way your best mate, father, or professor is. But, each one has his own way of expressing and serving his skills, talents and thoughts, where if all combined and wisely utilized will take you to the top of the pyramid. Everyone has a shining fruit within, however, few are those who explore it and intelligently use it to add value to one’s society.

Body Image; a Media Slave!

Written in 2005... :)

Instinctively, a human being has been always easily tempted with sexual appearances and drawn smoothly with cultural restrictions and paradigms. However, few are those who stand still. Media, at all times, has been the driving agent to change people’s way of thinking and perspectives. It is the unconscious influencer of anytime. Apparently, media plays a crucial part in shaping the ideal body image of the time for men and women. With thin models and trendy celebrities are all what is shown on TV, movies and advertisements; people tend to get unsatisfied with their current body shape, which is leading some people to get seriously ill and depressed.

Media Strikes In

Sadly, some of today’s youth role models are the fake artificial attractive celebrities starting from Hayfa Wahbi and Nancy Ajram to Jad Choueri! With the increasing trend of singers with low quality voices and HIGH QUALITY looks, youth interests are increasingly becoming sex-oriented. The media sets unrealistic standards for what body weight and appearance is considered “normal.” Girls are being surrounded with the thought at a very young age that Barbie is how a woman should look; no fat at all but huge breasts! A study revealed that if a Barbie were life-size, she would stand 5’9” and weigh 110 lb. (only 76% of what is considered a healthy weight for her height). Her measurements would be 39-18-33, and she would not menstruate due to inadequate levels of fat on her body. Similarly, boys are given the impression that men naturally have muscles bulging all over their bodies. After all, there aren’t such realistic measurements for a normal human being. Body features in media are adjusted with lighting angles, computer techniques and props. Moreover, shapes are edited, yet, some images are completely computer generated! “In a study on 5th graders, 10 year old boys and girls told researchers they were dissatisfied about their own bodies after watching a music video by Britney Spears or a clip from the TV show ‘Friends’”.

Why are standards of Beauty imposed on Women?

If we focus a bit on the advertisements scattered all over the streets, magazines, banners, TV and the internet, we would observe almost all of them involve women’s body in a way for a more effective promotion. For instance, in the case of a cosmetics manufacturer, it is very influencing to present an ideal fit that is difficult to achieve and maintain which in return will ensure profits and growth. And it’s no accident that youth is increasingly promoted, along with thinness, as an essential criterion of beauty. Women who are afraid of aging and are insecure about their looks and bodies tend more to purchase beauty products and diet aids as well as new clothes. According to analysts, the abuse of women’s bodies and beauty in promotion are all based upon economical benefits.

Ideal Body Images in Media Affect Men Too!

Women are not the only party experiencing hard time with media influences! Men as well are passing through low self-worth due to the muscular attractive men shown in after-shave ads. A study conducted on 158 male college students who were asked to watch TV ads with very muscle-defined men. Results showed that men who viewed these commercials felt more unsatisfied and depressed compared to the students who watched the “moderate” ads. It was concluded that the “Ideal male body” picture in the media is connected to the negative feelings held by men toward their body image. Such feelings lead to depression and eating disorders. A research showed that poor body image among men has been on the rise.
Disordered Behaviors

Media has different influences and affections on people. However, most of all, it has a large effect on youth, especially during their maturity and teenage stage. They seek unhealthy and illegal ways to get the ideal fit of the time! For instance, too many young girls and women, who look up for today’s ultra-thin looks; starve themselves, over exercise, and even worse, use steroids! In addition, the latest civilized plastic surgeries ranging from nose jobs, botox to implants and a lot more, happen to have their own health risks. Other young women follow extreme eating disorders, such as anorexia, bulimia or compulsive overeating. All of these extreme efforts, including self induced vomiting, to gain the ideal looks and body shapes carry severe health problems in the long term.

Beauty and Attractiveness

It is becoming more of a fact that being “thin or muscular” is accompanied with being hard-working, successful, popular, beautiful, strong, and self-disciplined, while on the other hand, being “fat” is accompanied with being ignorant, hated, ugly, weak, and lacking will-power. Unfortunately, some people generalize and judge people based on their appearances, which must not be the case anywhere. Body size and shape certainly aid in physical attractiveness, however, they are not the only factors. Personality, charisma, social settings, way of talking, welcoming posture and a friendly smile are who attract people to each other at the first place. Weight is not the problem in here nor is dieting the answer! Happiness comes from within, and in order to get a satisfied life with a high spirit a person should stop comparing oneself to others. A person should nurture his soul with healthy relationships, communication and meditation. Consequently, once the inner happiness and satisfaction are found, it will result in better self-care of the external body leading to healthier eating and physical activity trends.

JORDANIAN YOUTH; BOOSTING THE TREND OF A DYNAMIC NATION!

Written in 2006 - Recap...

Youth under the age of 30 makes 70% of Jordan’s population, where they are the future of our country and the hot target today! Great Minds are the driving agents of change and innovation, yet, they are the key to a nation’s prosperity. Therefore, His Majesty King Abdullah and Her Majesty Queen Rania are focusing on building a brighter future for our youth through different initiatives and projects. “King Abdullah and the Jordanian government aim to transform Jordan into an innovative model of development. By spearheading educational reform and encouraging investment our dreams can, and will be, realized.” as her Majesty stated.


The Royal Initiatives

If Jordan is well known for a resource, it must be its human resource. Jordan is a youthful country, which allows a great emphasis on investing in its young population to flourish the country’s economy and future. Hence, His Majesty King Abdullah and Her Majesty Queen Rania sat up a vision and a strategy for replenishing youth and formed related initiatives.

For instance, the King’s and Queen’s nationwide initiative to introduce computers and Information Technology into schools across Jordan and to incorporate their use into the educational system, which complements King Abdullah’s IT initiative. Also, Her Majesty Queen Rania Al-Abdullah hosted the first joint annual meeting for the Advisory Council and board of directors of World Links Arab Region (WLAR) – a program which aims to improve educational outcomes, economic opportunities and mutual global understanding for youth in developing countries through the use of technology and the Internet.
One of King Abdullah II's priorities is boosting the benefits of technology into the national educational process. Legislation has already been passed requiring all public schools to offer English from the first grade and computers from the second grade up until their last year in high school. Currently, all secondary schools in Jordan have fully equipped computer labs, and ADSL connectivity has reached over 600 of Jordan's 3000 public schools. A national e-learning strategy has been articulated by the efforts of the Ministry of Education. The strategy is being implemented now.

On a higher educational level, the Ministry of Education will also be developing a learning portal for all Jordanians. Universities are teaming up with IT industry multinationals to provide certification programs for their students. For example, Sun Microsystems has nominated Sumaya University to become the first authorized Academic Sun Education Center in the Middle East. Similar initiatives are underway between various Jordanian universities and Cisco systems, Microsoft, Oracle and HP.

In early 2002, Queen Rania joined the Board of Directors of the International Youth Foundation, based in Baltimore, Maryland, in the United States. She joins a distinguished group of business, government, and civil society leaders from across the globe to support the work of one of the world’s largest public foundations helping young people learn basic life skills and get the education, training, and opportunities they need to succeed.

If we grasp a closer look on the international events taking place in Jordan for the past years, we would notice the involvement of youth in every event. This is achieved through the collaboration of youth NGOs and associations, such as King Abdullah Fund for Development (KAFD), INJAZ and Young Entrepreneurs Association (YEA). For instance, at the World Economic Forum session, held at the Dead Sea, titled “Youth and Entrepreneurship”, where representative youth from the Kingdom were invited, our youth spoke so fluently and intelligently about ideas that were in harmony with His Majesty’s vision. Also, in May 2005 Her Majesty Queen Rania and First Lady Laura Bush met with a group of our youth to discuss educational and technological issues. Yet, upon his visit to Jordan last October, Bill Gates was delighted to meet representative Jordanian youth in a special session entitled “In the Eyes of the Youth”. And on a higher level, His Majesty King Abdullah continuously engage youth in international forums held abroad.

An Observed FACT! …


All of such initiatives and projects contribute to the trend of young managers, who are still in their twenties, young universities instructors, and the increased trend of youth conducting higher studies, where at some points now; a bachelor degree is not good enough for a job in the business sector and apparently not for an academic position. It is being observed that the standards for any placement in the market have risen as the competition between the applying applicants is levitating. This is one of the reasons why a huge number of youth are eager to pursue higher studies to secure a distinguished career path.

The Trend of Young Managers:

Today, and more than ever, Jordan is witnessing a flow of ambitious and young managers in the Jordanian industry. This is justified by the royal vision of developing youth by providing them with NGOs and initiatives to qualify them for the market. Let alone the observed eagerness of today’s youth to work hard and smartly grabbing opportunities. Yet, being exposed internationally; by reading financial and business magazines; such as The Economist, Forbes, surfing the web, interacting with international CEOs by e-forums and attending international conferences is aiding in changing today’s youth to become up-to-date with the market needs and in learning from high ranking international companies experiences. However, reading and learning are not the only tools to make successful managers and executives; on that, Rami Malki, 29 years, Head of Corporate Finance says “Being realistic and keeping grounds is a virtue of successful executives around the globe, a title never made its holder a success story, it is what you deliver and not what you say you do. Also having the soul of an entrepreneur helps.”

Sally Shahin – 28 years is the Quality and Business Development Manager at Manaii Auto Group based in Qatar, formerly the Premium Channel Manager at Abu Khader Service Center, gained her bachelor degree from Jordan University for Science and Technology in “Heavy Equipment Mechanical Engineering”. Apparently, this is not a very favored study for girls. However, she excelled at it perfectly and reached high ranks in her work. “My gender at occasions stood as an obstacle; often I wanted to apply for certain jobs I found interesting, jobs that unfortunately preferred the male gender or restricted the application to it. On the other hand; getting people to believe in you and disregard your gender, age and modest experience at times were among the challenges; ones that were the driving force to reach higher, work harder and seek more knowledge.”

On the other hand, Julian Noursi– 29 years old, Marketing & Special Events Manager at Romero Group, had a total different experience; “Being a female gives me a plus especially in the hospitality and events sector. Although Jordan is a male dominant society, but as I advised earlier, “never victimize yourself” always think that you can do it no matter what your gender is or what the society constraints are. Obstacles are everywhere but I do not believe that it is based on gender”. This shows that our Jordanian youth are hardworking and determined to reach their goal and achieve success, as Sally highlighted “ Success is when really knowing that you gave it your very best and are content with the outcome, aim for perfection and you'll probably land close enough.”

Young University Instructors Boom!

On the contrary to the marketplace, we can’t deny the trend of young university instructors’ boom. This trend is justified by the “internal recruitment” Human Resource Management strategies adopted by several Jordanian universities as Wael Abu Gharbieh- 25 years, an instructor at Yarmouk University cleared out. It is a well known fact that Universities are no more an attractive workplace to youth compared to the tempting offers and higher salaries at the marketplace nowadays; nevertheless, we find some youth in their early 30’s long to join the academic sector despite their high professionalism skills and experience to support their PhD’s.

Out of this fact, Jordanian universities started recruiting their own students who have outstanding and very good records at their early twenties before they are drawn by the spark of the business sector! “Universities were heading to a decline phase, and critically needed fresh youth blood” as Wael stressed out.

Is it a “Yes” or “No” for Young Instructors?

Some people are not encouraging the idea of having a young instructor in his/her twenties educating students of his/her own generation, while others view it as a plus! Ruba Ja’afari- 25 years, an instructor at University of Jordan, emphasizes “Being young with a relatively close age to my students, allowed me to understand how they think during the class discussions.”

Wael elaborates “When it comes to universities in Jordan, things might seem complicated more than they seem. Both professors and students complain always from the gap that exists between the two parties of the academic equation; the students and professors. I explain further, the two parties belong to two different and distinct generations; each has its own set of values. While professors claim that students are irresponsible, students fire back by claiming that professors are conservative. Clearly the two sides speak different languages. However, fulfilling my current position at my early youth years gave me a different perspective, a perspective that enabled me to work as a liaison between the two parties. I simply look to things from the two sides’ perspectives, as I am able to speak both languages.”

However, from a non-academic perspective, Obaida Fares- 28 years, Manager of the Regional office of “Democrats Network in the Arab World”, and the Regional Manager of “Center for the Study of Islam and Democracy” explains: “The moral doesn’t lie behind the age of an instructor, but in the amount of knowledge an instructor has to give. It is very likely for young instructors in their twenties to excel more than older ones. Some young instructors build on their modest experience and knowledge by learning from older experienced people, or through educating themselves more, attending trainings, seminars and reading. Yet, the continuous follow up on the latest advancement of one’s field contributes to the instructor’s acquaintance.”

Jordanian youth capabilities:

Wael believes, as he is in a daily interaction with today’s youth that “Achievements, ambitions, capabilities and abilities, you name it. Jordanian youths got it all, yet, need direction. Taking responsibility of their own lives is what most of university students lack; they think about university life as a phase to enjoy, yet, they miss the fact it is a phase to develop personality, knowledge and skills in order to be able to join the business environment when they do graduate. In short, balance is the key for success; students need to balance between enjoying and working during their university life”. Moreover, due to Ruba’s everyday dealings with University students, she elaborates “Today’s youth are smart, and I do not mean by smart being able to gain high grades only. They have the thirst to learn, and they are willing to try new methods in learning. They have high degree of self confidence that may sometimes reach to vainglory”.

As Her Majesty Queen Rania highlighted during her interview with Oprah Winfrey “You can change the course of a nation through education”. This shows education as a core value in expanding youth capacities. However, sadly some students at their University life disregard the education they are obtaining and deal with it as if a compulsory life task, specially for those who are specializing in a major they didn’t choose and don’t like! They are missing the fact that education is part of personality building formula which in the long term aids in forming a more civilized nation. “I believe that the more the person is educated; the better he/she should be able to communicate with people from different backgrounds and educational levels. Education is never only about degrees, I believe that it should also cultivate the personality” as Ruba stated. However, Rami emphasizes that it is not solely the youth’s responsibility to maintain strong abilities, he says “Today, we have a few capable Jordanian youth, but unfortunately sometimes the lack of sharp and intelligent environments to enhance such capabilities might play a negative role in maintaining and growing such assets.”

Obstacles:

Despite the great accomplishments drawn by our youth at the marketplace and the high ranks achieved, there are some obstacles which stand in some of youth’s way. For some, it is the high requirements of today’s market, while for others it is the lack of will and a strategy to follow, and for a third party it might be a lack of guidance from wise experienced people and a short of self discipline and not discovering one’s self. However, such drawbacks must not be blamed on the marketplace, as it is the person’s task to plan, work hard, discover his own capabilities, and improve one’s skills to reach the high standards of today’s jobs. Yet, the marketplace is bursting with job opportunities, but they are waiting for the right people to clutch them! Sally points out “Opportunities are there to grab for those equipped with the right tools and the Jordanian market growth rate is among the highest in the region, I am not saying it’s easy but it is worth the effort.”

Obaida elaborates on this issue “Jordanian youth are surrounded with plenty of opportunities which allow them to develop their skills and abilities; a new educational system is being introduced at schools and universities, and there are many training openings, where a lot of our Arabic communities lack. The problem lies behind the blindness of our youth to such opportunities, or more specifically, they avoid them as they are unaware of the value such chances contribute for their future.” Yet, Obaida thinks that there is a very crucial aspect which needs to be highlighted; “The main obstacle faced by our youth is their lack of knowledge of the market needs and conditions. In addition to accepting the so- called fact ‘the scarcity of job openings in our market’, yet, some youth are still inside the stereotyping bubble of the necessity to work at the public sector, or only doing routine office work which limits their flexibility and advancement in their career life.”

However, on a personal level, the real obstacles that might be facing our youth today as Wael highlighted “Distraction is one; some people are easily distracted and sucked by the day to day activities, to the extent they forget their vision and the key goal they seek to accomplish; they win battles, but lose the war! Conversely, on a systematic level; “Bureaucracy, hypocrisy and resistance of change are also obstacles which might hold our youth back. Every single change needs a champion of change, and the sole fact about champions of change; ‘things are not easy as they may seem.’” Nonetheless, Rami believes that there is a toll on the youth’s side to recognize how their own perception of things affect their way in dealing with their surroundings, he justifies “They have to realize that every phase in their lives has its own relevant issues, and that they usually see the world through their eyes. Yet, once you enter the market your perspectives towards many issues change, they will learn that flexibility and social intelligence are extremely important.”

Planning:

Ruba has been always a tactful planner; yet, she emphasizes the great efforts our country contributes in fostering opportunities for our youth; “Working according to a plan means working in a scientific and systematic way, and the ability to work in such an organized manner was the leading factor to the position I am fulfilling now. Circumstances played an important role as well. Growing in a country that offers great opportunities for its youth and the superb academic atmosphere surrounding me had their great impact on my progression. Planning future is very important. However, before planning future, it is important to ask yourself about the work you like to do, is it beneficial for my society and for me? How? And why am I learning? Answering these questions will very much simplify planning your future.”

On the other hand, Wael is one of the highly motivated Jordanian youth and had planned his career path long ago he was conducting his undergraduate studies “I am fulfilling the current position as a result of well established career and life plan. I have developed my academic and career life during my junior bachelor degree year, as I knew where I will be during the year 2006, as early as the year 2000.”

According to Rami, our culture plays a role in forming a coherent sense of planning to our youth, he explains: “Long term planning is key to success, maybe our youth are not brought up to plan on the long run because it's not a best practice in our culture, however, making the past our school, being realistic about our present, and planning our future are all keys to success.”
His Majesty’s vision for a better Jordan states; “I believe in my people Jordanians, who built achievements of the past, can and will work for a better future. A future that is based on true capabilities and economic opportunities.” Her Majesty confirms his Majesty’s vision during ‘Youth and Entrepreneurship’ session of the World Economic Forum; "My point is, the most precious aspects of youth are not tied to ages or stages. Preserving them doesn’t mean clinging to the past – it means embracing the future.” Their Majesties’ efforts to improve and develop Jordan’s future lie heavily on its golden resource; youth. If not strategically guided and taken care of, the future of our nation will not flourish; economically, socially and politically. Youth are part of our country’s infrastructure and investment prospects, thus, empowering them will thrive our nation.

A planner or Flow Walker?

Written in 2004... Remincising... :)

Have you ever thought of where are you in this life? What are you doing? Have you ever wondered what your purpose is? Or maybe asked yourself: what do I like, want and where I want to be ten years from now? Did you ever get this cycle of questions?

Realising Your Ambition:

Instinctively, as we notice in kids; they always say what they want to be when they grow up. Some wants to be a doctor, others a teacher, while some wishes to be a Hollywood star! However, once they get into the teenage phase, some of these ambitious kids get distracted by life pleasures and forget all about their future and career. Specifically at this phase, a teenage guy or girl is building a coherent base for his/her personality. If his personality gets slightly deviated, it will affect and retard his progress in the next phase of his life to build a respectful future. Every person has a fruit within which for some has not been discovered yet. This might be due to several reasons; parents’ awareness and guidance must be increased.

Life Transitions:

A person passes through different transitions. Every transition is a complement to the one before it. For instance, after high school, students move to a higher phase called University or College life. However, upon the admission to university, the student must make a decision on what major to specialize in. Sadly, a huge percentage of students go with the flow; whatever the university allocates for them or whatever their parents decide on their behalf to study. It’s true that the student’s Tawjihi GPA plays a role in determining one’s acceptance in a major, but still a person must be the decider of his own choice! On the other hand, it is always beneficial to consult wiser experienced people to support your decision and then study the options you have and move on with your plan.

D.Y – 24 years explains “I was accepted to specialize in biology at JU after Tawjihi. I directly accepted it as honestly it didn’t matter for me which major to study. However, at my third year I discovered that this is not what I want! I found myself in media field and started taking courses and trainings to educate myself in that field. Now, I am working for a media company. I’m glad I discovered my path of interest while I’m still at university and not later, because the later you realize your interests, the later you will progress.”

Planning:

A plan is known as setting short or long term goals and objectives. And in our case, is setting up your life goals and objectives. The key to a successful career and life is firstly to know what you really want and what you are good at, then to determine the path you want to walk through. At that moment, you can set up your goals and the plan of action which you’ll stick to.

On the contrary, for some they emphasize that life circumstances got them to where they are now. However, that’s a luck shot, which they can’t stay relying on as it may fool them. Thus, a smart planner makes use of life circumstances and opportunities to his best interest and to serve the determined goals. Being a flow walker is out of a successful person life. Draw your own path!

Getting out of your Bubble:

As soon as you are born, you are restricted to a certain environment and lifestyle offered by your family. When you are a kid, you will be living in your parents’ territory; fully depending on them. However, once you get mature you’ll have to realize life challenges and obstacles, which will lead you to determine a lifestyle of your own within the well known norms. Few are those who get out of their bubble to be the managers and leaders of themselves. O.H – 19 years “I recommend every young person to experience living independently on their own whether it was abroad or within their country. Because, this will enrich their life experiences, yet, being internationally exposed will aid in making young persons thinking on the edge, and getting more mature.”

Where are you now from your plans?

Evaluating your progress in achieving your goals is an indicator to show you where you are now and how much do you have ahead. A.M – 22 years “In a narrow level, I always carry my agenda in my bag and jot down my to-do-list the day before. It allows me to be more organized and focused. On a higher level, I have a long term plan knowing what I want to achieve in five years period. It has been a year since I realized my ambition and since then I am in a continuous evaluation of my performance. It’s paying back well! ”.

Monday, May 25, 2009

Internet Protocol connectivity costs to drop by 15% as of June 1

By Mohammad Ghazal

AMMAN - The Jordan Telecom Group (JTG) will reduce Internet Protocol (IP) connectivity costs for Internet Service Providers (ISP) by 15 per cent as of June 1, according to JTG CEO Mickael Ghossein.

End-users should expect a drop in Internet prices based on reductions by individual ISPs, he said, pointing out that the 15 per cent cut will decrease the cost of services to ISPs by 30 per cent.

IP connectivity represents a significant part of any ISP’s current costs.

The 15 per cent cut brings the total reduction since the beginning of 2007 to 70 per cent, Ghossein told reporters at a press conference on Thursday.

JTG, the country’s main IP connectivity provider, has a 50 per cent market share through Orange Internet.

Ghossein said the cut in IP connectivity prices is meant to enable ISPs to reduce prices for end-users and thus increase the number of people using the Internet.

Internet penetration currently stands at 26 per cent, according to Ministry of Information and Communications Technology figures, and the government seeks to increase it to 50 per cent by the end of 2011 through the implementation of the National ICT Strategy, which was launched in 2007.

"The cut gives ISPs a good margin to reduce their prices to end-users," said Jawad Abbasi, founder and chairman of Arab Advisers Group.

"It is also designed to increase the competitiveness of ADSL as there are alternatives to it now such as Wimax," Abbasi told The Jordan Times in a phone interview yesterday.

Meanwhile, JTG Wholesale Marketing Director Wesal Balasmeh noted that the group is connected to the Internet in Europe and North America through four physically separate routes, noting that a fifth "high" capacity route will be operational soon to back up the others.

"The fifth route will enable us to reduce prices further," Ghossein said, adding that when it is operational, ISPs are expected to increase the download capacities offered to their clients.

During the press conference, Ghossein said he expected a drop in telecom sector growth in 2009 in light of the global financial crisis and the competition in the market.

"Revenues of telecoms are decreasing in general and the growth in Internet does not make up for the decrease in telecom," he said.